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Okie... Am pissed... Super pissed, in fact.. This wretch of a thing called 'A' who considers me like his 'younger sis' or somethin lik tat calls me up and starts questionin me bout my drinkin habits..

A: "Tabi, how drunk are you today?"

T: "No, A; am not drunk... I was out wid family the whole day".

A: "No Tabi... U dont get it... Words out tat u hav been drinkin a lot these days!!"

T: "Wat nonsense!!! Who told you this?"

A: "Hav you quit drinkin?"

T: "That can never happen"

A: "Had you gone to Club X the other day"(not mentionin the name for obvious reasons)

T: "Yes I had"

A: "Do you know wat hpnd that day? This random guy who I know as an acquaintance calls me up to inform me tat ur really drunk and tat ur misbehaving"

T: "Ridiculous.. I was sane enuf to control my overly drunk female friend who was wid me... N u call me drunk!!!"

A: "I dunno girl.. I dont want any explanations.. Henceforth, ur not gettin drunk unless u hav me around"

T: "Whaddaaaaaa"

A: "Am serious... Tom when u get married..."

T: "Okie... Hold on a sec.. Y r v talkin marriage??"

A: "Someday or the other you are gonna get married, aren't u??"

T: "Noooooo.. I dont c the compulsion for it"

A: "You know ur parents wud want you to... You will HAVE TO GET MARRIED atleast for their sakes"

T: "What do you want me to do next? Get pregnant for their sakes?"

A: "How can you even speak like that?? Today you're so outspoken n all.. Tom you wil hav to be submissive wid ur husband around"

T: "Wen did I give you the impression that I am the kind of girl who is gonna sit at home belofying rotis for my husband"

A: "Not like you will have too much of an option... All women end up doin that..."

(Losin it completely by now)

T: "I will not get married coz others want me to, get it!!! N I will only once I get a man who is man enuf to share the household chores wid me.. Got anyone in mind?"

A: "Would you like it if my (future) wife wud ask me to do the household chores?"

T: "I would love it if she asked you to...."

A: "But Tabi...."

T: "Fuhget it!!!"

*click*

Is this wat I live for??? To get married to some moron who thinks its below his dignity to help out wid the household chores?? Am I goin to be tied up to the house like a cow tied to a post, lest she runs away?? What will I run to?? Another man?? A better future???? I wonder what??

Atleast one thing I know for sure, if I ever do end up with a man, he should be least bothered bout me runnin off to another man.. Coz for me that will be like jumpin from the pan into the fire!! No intentions of doin tat!!!

Of women and more

I am gonna begin this post with a statutory warning : All characters bear resemblance to people alive (and kickin) and the stories are NOT fictitious.. However, I refrain from mentioning the time and place to avoid identities being revealed (I don't think they would want the world to know it was em)

I was in for a culture shock the other day... I have been familiarised (quite early on) with the concept of orgies and Lesbian threesomes (Yummmm.. I hear the guys say) However, we bein the quaint lil creatures that we are, we never ever indulged in more than we cud handle (our def of handle - enough of profanity and vulgarity for our parents to faint... We dont wanna kill them....)

But what I have seen in the past coupla months has been enough to kill anyone's parents man!!! Whooooooooo.... I have seen perceptions and images of people that I have created in my head (after years of knowin em) get shattered in less than five minutes...

Demure lil girls, (formerly viewed em as the perennial celebates, one-man-woman kinda creatures) now have turned into anythin but that (sexual predators, one-man-at-a-time kinda chicks - note: at a time can last anywhere btwn a coupla dances to a coupla weeks, am not even talkin months here).

I dont refer to jus one person here.. I refer to an entire bunch (invariably I have to say am a part of the bandwagon myself)

Women my age, datin married men older than em (wid wives n kids et al... Women datin men and dumpin em faster than u can say the word 'Next'; women dating their friend's EXes (in my world unacceptable) ... Women two timing... Women dating minor boys... Women datin divorcees... Women datin jus to date... Women datin since they cant deal with the 'single' tag... Women dating coz they want someone else to foot the bill... Women dating coz they are in love!!!!

(Note: Am not tryin to be judgemental, except for in a case or two, I'm just puttin down my observations here)

Moreover, these are women I have known for years.. Had certain lasting impressions cast in my head (well cast in stone, to be precise) and hav had all those impressions broken... Shattered... Mixed with the dust!!!

I can deal with women datin several men at the same time, et al...But the one thing I cant deal with is women datin married men.. I dunno y, but I jus cant stand the thot of not havin the tag of bein the ONLY WOMAN in my man's life!!! I would hate havin a thought tat sounds remotely like this every morn 'He has a wife for God's sake!!! You're not the only woman in his life... YOU ARE SHARIN YOUR MAN'