Okie... Am pissed... Super pissed, in fact.. This wretch of a thing called 'A' who considers me like his 'younger sis' or somethin lik tat calls me up and starts questionin me bout my drinkin habits..
Monday, June 22, 2009
A: "Tabi, how drunk are you today?"
T: "No, A; am not drunk... I was out wid family the whole day".
A: "No Tabi... U dont get it... Words out tat u hav been drinkin a lot these days!!"
T: "Wat nonsense!!! Who told you this?"
A: "Hav you quit drinkin?"
T: "That can never happen"
A: "Had you gone to Club X the other day"(not mentionin the name for obvious reasons)
T: "Yes I had"
A: "Do you know wat hpnd that day? This random guy who I know as an acquaintance calls me up to inform me tat ur really drunk and tat ur misbehaving"
T: "Ridiculous.. I was sane enuf to control my overly drunk female friend who was wid me... N u call me drunk!!!"
A: "I dunno girl.. I dont want any explanations.. Henceforth, ur not gettin drunk unless u hav me around"
A: "Am serious... Tom when u get married..."
T: "Okie... Hold on a sec.. Y r v talkin marriage??"
A: "Someday or the other you are gonna get married, aren't u??"
T: "Noooooo.. I dont c the compulsion for it"
A: "You know ur parents wud want you to... You will HAVE TO GET MARRIED atleast for their sakes"
T: "What do you want me to do next? Get pregnant for their sakes?"
A: "How can you even speak like that?? Today you're so outspoken n all.. Tom you wil hav to be submissive wid ur husband around"
T: "Wen did I give you the impression that I am the kind of girl who is gonna sit at home belofying rotis for my husband"
A: "Not like you will have too much of an option... All women end up doin that..."
(Losin it completely by now)
T: "I will not get married coz others want me to, get it!!! N I will only once I get a man who is man enuf to share the household chores wid me.. Got anyone in mind?"
A: "Would you like it if my (future) wife wud ask me to do the household chores?"
T: "I would love it if she asked you to...."
A: "But Tabi...."
T: "Fuhget it!!!"
Is this wat I live for??? To get married to some moron who thinks its below his dignity to help out wid the household chores?? Am I goin to be tied up to the house like a cow tied to a post, lest she runs away?? What will I run to?? Another man?? A better future???? I wonder what??
Atleast one thing I know for sure, if I ever do end up with a man, he should be least bothered bout me runnin off to another man.. Coz for me that will be like jumpin from the pan into the fire!! No intentions of doin tat!!!